Yet a second post had to be made when Cali addressed you, so yeah. If you no longer wish to be associated by this community, why post a (understandable) rant and then close the door?
Don't get me wrong, i get the sentiment shared - But you are sharing this around the moment people accepted this situation for what it is and consequences have been handed out. For you to then post what you did isn't contributive, but rather puts the accused back on blast. Emotions and tensions ran and run high, but i don't feel putting Cali on the barbecue is equally deserved. What would be a better solution? Kicking everybody out? The infrastructure would be in jeopardy.
I ain't buying this. In a situation as precarious as Marisa, sexual accusations carry (or well, they used to) a significant weight. Would you be better off throwing someone immediately under the bus based on a suspicion, or would you be better off if taken under serious consideration before pulling action? All in all, its easy to throw out how you or anyone else would have handled things if you had to handle them. But fact of the matter is, you didn't. You didn't had to handle it - They did.
There is also the legality at play here - The age difference can and is legal in several countries. That doesn't justify every and other action - But it does mean that, shock and awe, you have to consider several things before continuing through - Instead of an instant blowback.
I feel you are taking this very emotionally to a state where nuance is out of the door. I mean, you are literally saying you don't really give a shit how your post comes across. I don't believe that's right. And if you think that by me saying this is somehow defending things, you would be mistaken.
So nobody is allowed a shot at self-improvement - The very thing that makes humans, well, humans. Reading your posts you make the staff out to be monsters.
I agree with the part that a lot of folks come in here with strong opinions on the matter, and consistently so, when their activity is usually relegated to lurking, instead of participating. Why does it take an event like this to come out of the woodwork and spark a discussion, yet any regular discussion thread sees no activity?
Whilst the frustration is real and understandable, its better to move on. This shouldn't have happened, and it should never happen again.