Eriance wrote: ...as I'm replacing it the Doom guy with DE Gal.

Would it be possible to make both the potential DE Gal and Doom Guy both playable Player Classes in of themselves? May broaden to a wider Doomer base (Lot of girl gamers rising up out there, which is good, and I'm sure both Doomguy/Doomgal availability will put more smiles on faces).
Other than that, Eriance, you've got something good here. Try not to overwhelm yourself. Find a consistency with what you can do for Demon Eclipse. Set how much time you want to spend each day (For example, say 1 hour). Spend that time (1 hour or whatever you set) SOLELY for Demon Eclipse, and then go about the day. It works wonders. I personally have scheduled 12AM - 1PM for my Dooming needs, and it bridges the gap effectively. Of course, you do you.
The weapons wad is awesome. It's cool how you've managed to get Cyberdemons and Spider Masterminds to drop Gatlings and Double Missile Launcher (Thanks Xaser for the Weapon wad assembling as well).
Go for the goal man. This is a winning project here. Reach out to some of the senior members. They've got you.
Otherwise, keep on keepin on. You're doing well.